Tuesday, March 22, 2011

CO-OPERATING WITH THE DIVINE PROGRAMME

LIFE ISSUES

What to Do With Free Time or Transition Moment
TOPIC: Time Management/Time Investment
TEXT: Eccl 3:1 – 8
There is a time for everything! You must spend your time mindful of your purpose in God and not generally as a man. What do you do with your free time and your moments of transition that you have some gaps.
Time management is utilizing your time very well; using it for tangible things not wasting time.
Time investment is planting time as a seed into divine things on earth.
Use your time to affect what God is doing in your day. Time put into God’s purpose for you is time invested, not wasted not even used.
You are what you spend your time doing. Spend time becoming your purpose in God. Do courses, training – formal, informal etc, around your purpose.
Plant Time!
Transiting from Secondary School to University, from University to NYSC, from NYSC to labour market, period of strike at work etc.

PRACTICAL ISSUES
 I.      Transparent Clothing – How sane?
Revealing your nakedness, secret parts and sexual parts to the world is an improper act – mind your dressing!

If it is transparent or have holes – adapt proper lining! – Long enough.
Your dress is to cover you not expose you.

Use proper underwears-
Black is the suitable colour under anything transparent not white, pink, etc.
Adapt the current fashion to your kingdom taste not vice versa.
II.      Camisole Power or Cleavage Power
Camisole helps you to cover your breasts. Cleavage is exposing the upper part of your breast to give a sexually suggestive outlook that attracts you to men or get them seduced.


Which of these two you project in your dressing tells a lot of stories about your person, your motives and your weight. Camisole adds to your estimation before people.

The Careless Side
When you use a stupid looking pin to hold your blouse and you look archaic or funny; when you wear a colour riot camisole that is old or torn.
Do right things right and it shall be well with you in Jesus name.

Lastly, don’t be crazy on your wedding day in your wedding gown. Your nakedness is for your husband at the honey moon not for the wedding audience.  Don’t go with the world’s style – go with the kingdom style.
You can be very beautiful in a wedding gown that covers you well.
May the Lord depend on you to mould your generation for Him in Jesus name.

ANNOUNCEMENTS
Next DOD - April 9th, 2011. (If elections will not prohibit movement)

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

SENSITIVITY TO GOD’S TIMES AND SEASONS FOR YOU.


A.    KNOWING AND PUTTING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN COURTSHIP AND MARRIAGE
Text: Matt 1:16 – 25.
Introduction: The story of Mary and Joseph shows a clear demarcation between an engaged couple and a married couple. In courtship though you both have agreed to marry, but you are NOT yet married, no matter how close the wedding date is.
A lot of people have defiled themselves before God in the name of “sèbi we are going to get married soon!”
YOU ARE NOT MARRIED UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED
Put that difference there and you’ll be safe!
Although … in courtship you are to start preparing for marriage; preparing to be a wife does not make you a wife. Let your marriage be honourable – wait for the covenant to be cut before you throw yourself overboard! It is crucial.
HOW FAR CAN I GO WITH HIM IN COURTSHIP?
·         Introduce him to your pastor, brethren and spiritual family. Introduce him to your earthly parents, siblings and physical family after the full approval of your spiritual father. Don’t go and start living with his parents. (A lady has gotten pregnant that way before). Don’t let them put the two of you in the same room overnight.
·         You can visit him but don’t sleep over at his place. Don’t go to spend your weekends at his place.
·         Don’t move in to live with him.
·         You can attend functions together – with approval from necessary authorities – but don’t start wearing the same clothes around.
·         Don’t start packing your things into his house; forgetting undies etc.
·         You can cook for him. If he visits you, you may offer him food.
·         Remember you are still testing before trusting. Note issues that need to be addressed and take matters to the right quarters.
·         Don’t take a ring now – wait until you are wedded – you’ll wear your wedding ring all your life!
·         Don’t be a parasite, don’t over receive gifts, money, things, sponsorship for courses, siblings, parents etc. what is there is a re-think? You would have been bound already.
·         Don’t start buying for him or receiving things like undies – pants, bras etc from him. Neither should you wash such for him.
·         Don’t start discussing along sexual lines.
·         Don’t go into sexual contacts of any form at all. Reserve it for the appointed time. That’s when it’s sweetest and not damaging to your spirit as stated in 1 Cor 6:9 – 20.
·         Pray together, attend church meetings together; you can go to places together. But don’t go and lure each other into sin.
·         Be free to express what displeases you. Don’t control him, don’t be subjugated either, be free to relate but be respectful.
B.     HOW TO RECOGNIZE YOUR SEASON FOR MARRIAGE
-       You are like a flower – can be a bud and after a while opens up and becomes attractive and many want to pluck it for the beauty displayed. Don’t be plucked by wasters, strangers and exploiters.
Be harnessed for long term beautification through the Father’s plan.
-       When your physical beauty opens up, men will begin to notice you and come to you. You must have other guiding factor inside you not to follow a waster in your season.
-       You would have grown in God. You will know God, fellowship with Him and be led by His Spirit, living by His word and obeying His command.
-       You will let God’s ways not environmental or generational craze direct your life.
-       God will teach you how to relate with the opposite sex and how to handle domestic affairs.
-       In your season, you will know how to handle money, buy things etc.
-       Know how to share life with others without selling your sacred things cheap to the enemy.
-       In your season you should have become a true daughter in a spiritual house trusted with serious kingdom assignments that will channel your future years into kingdom glory manifestations.
-       Know your house, know your place, know your assignments.
-       Don’t think you are only ready when breasts and buttocks have come out. You must be wise to handle neihgbours, in-laws, colleagues, husband, children and money.
-       Be able to generate funds – be a wealth creator.
-       Also in your season – identify what will be dangerous to your future and deal with them.
·         Bad habits
·         Negative ancestral flows
·         Unwholesome relationships
·         Negative physical situations etc.
C.    WHAT TO DO IF TIME HAS PASSED OVER YOU
-       Run to God! – Joel 2:25. God is the restorer of lost years.
-       Don’t become desperate and sell yourself cheap to unworthy fellows.
-       Don’t go into sin with every Tom, Dick and Harry. That they sleep with you doesn’t mean that they’ll marry you.
-       Don’t become distracted and lose focus from God and start going for prayers from place to place.
-       Go for counseling and ministration to deal with the root cause. This can either be
v  Ancestral curse
v  Demonic attack/exchange
v  Human carelessness
v  Your own mistakes
-       Stay in church and be active. Don’t do eyeservice – be real, be plain and sincere. SOON God will get through to you.
-       Stand in faith – not be filled with worry, doubt and unbelief.
-       Anyone that shows up, bring them to see your Pastor, who is not under pressure. Don’t do any private transaction that will destroy your life.
-       Don’t go into polygamy! Don’t agree to be a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife.
-       Don’t say yes to an unbeliever. Wait for God and you will not be disappointed in Jesus name.
-       When it is not your time and they want to pluck you – stay under shelter i.e. spiritual covering.
-       Report all issues that come up between you and the opposite sex to your spiritual parents or godly, concerned, spirit filled earthly parents.
-       Hide under parental cover – spiritual and physical.
-       Keep focus on the real substance for living and not just physical shape.

Next DOD meeting is March 12th 2011. Be there!
IT IS WELL WITH YOU IN JESUS NAME.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

DEALING VICTORIOUSLY WITH YOUR PAST LIFE. Gal.2:20, 2Cor.5:16, Eph.2:1-13, Gal.5:1


Introduction
Your life is in phases: the past, the present and the future.
  • These three phases literarily mean the life you’ve lived before, the life you’re living now and the life you are yet to live.
In the context of this teaching, your past life is the life you lived before you met Christ. We want to look at how your past life can affect you today and even in your future, if not properly dealt with.
If your past life is also your “present life” and the only difference is that you added church to it and changed on the surface – we need to review your conversion.
§  Some people never dealt with their past life, so there is no demarcation between the time they claimed to have become saved and the time they were sinners.
§  Some tried to deal with their past life in an inappropriate manner but were never free from its grip: They kept going back or it kept pursuing them.
§  Some have dealt victoriously with their ugly past and they are now basking in the beauty of the Lord with a glorious future awaiting them. Join this happy throng.

[A]       TRUTHS YOU MUST BE WELL ESTABLISHED IN AS A CHILD OF GOD.
§  Every unsaved person – who has not met Christ has the devil’s nature and is capable of any kind of evil. There is no nice sinner! Eph 2:3, Rm 7:18, 19,24 Jer17:9, Ps 51:5
§  Self righteousness is not enough for salvation. Is 64:6, Eph 2:8-9
§  Anyone can come to Jesus and be forgiven, cleansed and saved, if they repent and believe on Him. No matter how terrible their sins are! Is1:18; John 6:37
§  Once you come to God, He forgives you and does not keep the record of your evil deeds. Col 2:14; 
Heb 8:12; 10:17
§  The blood of Jesus cleanses from ALL unrighteousness. Eph 1:7; Col 1:14; I John 1:9; Heb 9:14
§  The death of Jesus dealt with your sins. The nature of sin, the power to sin and the consequences of sin have been dealt with. Gal 2:19-20; Rm 6:3-7
§  He is our substitute.Is53:5; Gal 3:13-14
§  After you are saved, you can only sin by your WILL – not satanic compulsion as many people claim to be!
Titus 2:11-12; Rm 6:14
§  If you sin – (after you are saved)– you have an advocate. I John 1:1-2; Heb 4:14-16
§  You can return to your old ways. Heb 10:39; Heb 6:4-6
§  If you continue in sin, don’t expect grace to abound. Rm 6:1-2; Rm 6:15
§  If you feel guilty over the past it is one of two things:
§  The devil want to cheat you
§  You are deliberately covering up past issues. Rm 8:1; I John 1:8-9
§  Don’t cover your sins – expose them and be free! Prov 28:13; James 5:16



[B]       HOW CAN THE PAST AFFECT YOUR FUTURE?
                       
v     If you did things that have brought strange spurts into your life e.g:
§  Occultic help – incision marks, items given to eat/drink  or rub as cream or use in any form.
§  Demonic practices – incantations, covenants, blood or word.
§  Prophesying or seeing vision in white garment churches or occultic centres.
§  Strange/weird sexual practices.
§  Prostitution
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And such more issues.

v  If it is an ongoing falsehood, cheating or lies. Then you need to confess and expose them in order to stop it e.g.
§  Telling lies that you are the sister of a boy that is your, biological son
§  Age change – reduction or increase
§  Using forged  certificate or another persons certificate
§  Selling your body for money; either in prostitution or paying back because someone sponsored your schooling.
Seek pastoral counsel, if there is a need for restitution.
Restitution is not necessary in some cases e.g, you “spied” in an exam in April 2001, before you got saved in July 2006.
    If there are decisions you need to take that will affect other people seek pastoral counsel

v  BIG QUESTION?
“At what time should I tell my fiancée about my past, my ugly past”
v  ANSWER
It is always the best to tell your pastor about your past in advance… for adequate ministration, proper counseling. When you keep issues secret and they start unfolding after the other, it becomes very difficult to trust you again.
When you tell your pastor early and ahead of time you would have been properly ministered to, so that you have a testimony not the fear of being discovered.
v  DO A SURVEY
What is in your past that is affecting you negatively? E.g
A lady was raped by armed robbers at age16 and from that time she developed a strange sexual appetite with gangsters, touts, e.t.c.
Trace the root of evils or the negative habits  that are still on-going in your life - let’s eject it!
       

      [C]       DETACH GLORIOUSLY FROM YOUR PAST LIFE… and be free forever!
How do you detach?
§  See the vileness and evil of the past and quit!
§  Stop the actions/deeds of the past.
§  Be delivered from all forces of the past:
-          By conversion: Change of heart
-          By the word and the Spirit
-          By going through deliverance ministrations
-          By deliberate and continuous separation

2Cor.6:14-end
2Cor.6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2Co 6:15  And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
2Co 6:16  And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
2Co 6:17  Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
2Co 6:18  And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.

   How do you handle a core of relatives, friends, neighbours and colleagues who choose to cling to forces you have separated from? Be it witchcraft, familiar spirit, water spirit, seduction, falsehood e.t.c.?
§  Relate physically – for you are still in this world but detach from them in your soul and withdraw from them in the spirit.
§  Disallow a level of intimacy that can either command a flow from them to you or cause a transfer of negative things. Don’t allow any form of submission, admiration, followership or acceptance from you to them… for these factors will open doors of hearts to hearts. If you fellowship with anyone deeply enough, you’ll fellowship with the spirits.
§  Before you open up to people, at least, have a clue of what they worship with and what spirit is ruling their lives.

[D] GODLY EXAMPLES ON HOW TO SEPARATE FROM YOUR PAST

        1John1:3 “that which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ.”

Let me show you two examples of how to separate with no quarrels – at least no open fight.
1.      Ruth clave to Naomi – Orpah left. Ruth1:16
Do the opposite of what Ruth did. Prov 6:5Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.”
-          Make them tell you to leave – do the right in the face of their wrong.
-          Return from following after them – minimize going to places together.
-          Don’t go to where they go… you go elsewhere – with your own people, the people of God.
-          Don’t lodge where they lodge
-          Don’t keep the same relationship, you should company with God fearing girls.
-          Don’t serve their god. Don’t bow to what they bow to, don’t be led by what led them, don’t value what they value.

2.      Matt.4:21 “And going on from thence, he saw other two brethren, James the son of Zebedee, and John his brother, in a ship with Zebedee their father, mending their nets; and he called them.
Mat 4:22 and they immediately left the ship and their father, and followed him.

James and John left their father in the boat and followed Jesus – straight away! The embraced a “holy purpose” purpose above natural family linkage. If they hesitated they would have been kept from being fishers of men, they would have remained mere fishers of fish like their ancestors. Start pressing on and  following the holy example that God has raised for you in Zion.

-          Start rejecting occultic help from home! Don’t carry out strange instruction from strange prophets your parents consult, tell them you have a prophet in church!
-          Start refusing the counsel of the ungodly
-          Stop going to where evil is celebrated

One major thing that will keep you strong is FELLOWSHIP WITH GOD.
-          Give time to the word: Col.3:16
-          Spend time praying – pray in the spirit, pray in the understanding also – 1Cor. 14:15, Jude 1:20
-          Continue steadfastly in the Apostles’ doctrine – Acts 2:42; 2 Tim 3:14

Come into the light!
Stay in the light!
Grow in the light!
Continue in the light!